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A Typical Sydney Day

A Typical Sydney Day

Living in Sydney is one of the best decisions I have ever made. Yes, it is expensive. Yes, it is far from home and not at all like it. But that is partly why it’s so ideal! Not so much the expensive part. But for a 40+ single Asian woman, it’s better than some of the alternatives.

What on God’s green Earth? It’s another beautiful Sydney day! Well, of course, one must grumble and find fault at least once a day. Might as well get it over with. Don’t get me wrong, it is one of the finest places. A typical Sydney day would be one with plenty of sunshine, fabulous spots to go, activities to do or choose not to do. 

You wake up. Get coffee or whatever poison of your choice, look outside and mull over things to do for the day. Then you decide to go outside and let the world see you. Outdoors is always better than inside. Hordes of people minding their own business. But there’s always something happening a few blocks away. If you are not careful, you might run into a couple surprise vacation care events.


Sydney is still a stunner and will always be. The ferries, the coffee and the new year skyline and the barbie that’s just a few of Sydney’s crowd drawers. Sydney weddings are a daily occurence. You might walk into a celebration or reception practically anywhere. Sydney makeup artists and photographers seem to zero in on perfection for a Sydney wedding everytime! Then you snap out of your daydream long enough to remember you’re almost late brunch meeting at 2PM and he is even later than you are. So you end up people watching which is one of the nicer things to do on a lazy afternoon. It’s a mixed selection of surfers, dog lovers, sneaker wearers with their wine, lattes, matchas and chai drinks. 

Galleries, museums and miles upon miles stretch of beach. It’s the sunsets really that captures Sydney and Sydneysiders best. It’s always going to be changing but it will stay breathtaking.

Furnishing Your Designer Home

You owe it to your beautiful home to furnish it with gorgeous furniture. It is amazing that some among us do not get this simple fact of life. Bricks and mortar are not enough on their own, they need some help. Furnishing your designer home is both a treat and a challenge. A lovely abode should have a plethora of unique environments within it. Each room and area offer an opportunity to create something remarkable and something beautiful. It can be your time to shine and for your home to reflect what is inside you and your family. It is not a time to be shy but a time to shine.

Timber Furniture Speaks to the Soul

I always like to begin with wood. I feel that timber furniture speaks top the human soul like no other material on this planet. I shiver when I stroke a stunning piece of wooden furniture. The whorls and grain within natural timber can mesmerise me for hours, as I site inside my home and meditate on the beauty of nature. Wood was one of the first building materials that early humankind adapted to create their homes and furniture. It has stood the test of time. It grows and regenerates, if properly managed as a resource.

Form & Function Come Together in Artful Embrace

Peruse this site to see some stunning examples of quality Australian-made furniture. There are gorgeous wardrobes, entertainment units, dining tables, desks, chairs and more, to tastefully furnish your designer home in Sydney. Life is well lived when we are equipped with beautiful, useful things. Form and function come together in an artful embrace. I know when I sit at table and my body is supported perfectly to dine that I enjoy my meals more. I, also, know that when I entertain friends and family at home, I am at peace because I trust in the comfort of my furnishings to do their job well.

Surround Yourself with Beautiful Things

I have visited friends and cut short my time with them because their furnishings are so uncomfortable. Cheap Chinese rubbish annoys and offends me in equal measure, when considering furnishings and furniture. Why do we surround ourselves with so much nasty crap? It may be initially cheap to purchase but the cost mounts in lost comfort, poor durability, and an absence of class. An absence of beauty and well-made things in our designer homes and businesses is really a travesty, in my opinion.

Feeling Safe in Your Castle

Many homes in Sydney, and elsewhere in Australia, are worth millions of dollars. Our houses are very much our castles in both thought and fact in the 21C. Those of us lucky enough to live in these palatial domiciles, furnish and decorate them in sumptuous styles. We make these micro-universes spaces where our families and loved ones can enjoy rich and wonderful lives. However, with wealth come threats to our lifestyles and our castles. Unfortunately, not everyone is blessed with material wealth and this can create problems based on the unequal divide between those who have and those who have not. Feeling safe in your castle has become a very prevalent modern issue. Statistics back this up.

Security in the 21C

Security, what a word. What makes you feel secure? Is it your job? Your partner and/or family? Or, are you secure within yourself, whatever that means?  Does money make you feel safe? Or, is it property? These are some of the age-old sources of what humankind now calls security. Money can buy bars on the windows and locks on the doors. Wealth can afford CCTV cameras and security lighting and alarms. Do you have a solid relationship with a reliable locksmith? This is a practical and pragmatic relationship to have in our 21C.

Technology Presents Both Problems & Solutions

Check out this online example of a quality Sydney locksmith, who has been assisting his clients with a wide range of security issues, both commercially and domestically. People watch the news and worry about terrorism and crime, both at home and abroad. We want to know our families and property are safe and secure. It is a conversation that we all need to have with those we love. We need to take steps to meet the challenges ahead. Technology presents both new problems and solutions.

Locking Up the House

Locking up the house and the business, keeping the bad guys out, these are perennials, which have plagued humankind since time immemorial. The only things that have changed are how things are secured and what the threats are. Banks used to have vaults and big walls but, now, money is digital, just a bunch of numbers floating in space. Encryption becomes the new kind of walls to keep the baddies out. The means may change but the basic players remain the same. A good locksmith, like love, is, sometimes, hard to find. New lyrics for an old song; and the song remains the same.



Your Perfect Wedding

In some of the most recent statistics available from the ABS, it shows that there were 118 401 marriages in Australia in 2016, and 46 604 divorces took place in that same year. Civil celebrants married 76.4% of the couples at those wedding s in 2016, which shows the steep and steady decline of religions in Australia. The median age of females marrying is 29.9 YO and of males 31.0 YO. The majority of brides 81.2% and grooms 79.3% had not been married before. Your perfect wedding will or will not fit within these quoted parameters, but, whatever the case may be, will be a part of this bigger national picture.

Marriage Statistics in Australia

“Lies, damned lies, and statistics,” is the often-quoted statement from Mark Twain’s writings. This refers to how statistics can be used to prop up any argument via their selective application. The marriage and divorce figures above can tell us that double the number of people are getting married compared to the number getting divorced in Australia in 2016. I would imagine the number of marriages may substantially increase in the short-term, with the introduction of same sex marriage in this nation.

Unique & Individual Weddings

Above or, perhaps, below, these base figures, lie the unique and individual weddings taking place in the lives of many Australians. Check this out for a look at some of the quirky facts about weddings in history from a variety of cultures and civilisations. Brides and grooms, often, seek to find a ceremony that will speak to their particular circumstances and interests. A marriage may be a social institution, but in the 21C, couples, often, want to do it their way. Your perfect wedding may involve a turban and a white horse. Alternatively, your perfect wedding may by conducted on the beach sans clothing. Whatever tickles your fancy can be a part of the modern Australian wedding.

New & Fresh Wedding Ideas

What will you do to make your wedding uniquely yours? Are you culturally bound to some format via religion or social custom? Weddings are, often, directed by families and communities, because of their innately social fabric. Still many couples seek a point of difference, whether it be cosmetic or more substantial, to make their wedding something new and fresh. There are many websites out there promising a cornucopia of wedding ideas and it is worth checking these out to see if one or two ideas may appeal.

A Beautiful Life for All

Most us, I am sure, on a good day anyway, wish a beautiful life for all. We do not begrudge others the best that life has to offer them, and we do not actively impede upon their ability to have an enjoyable life. If you do not fall into this camp I recommend that you do not waste your time reading this article. The good life is, even, better, when shared with others. I have always thought that it is only when people are suffering that they look around for someone or something to blame their suffering upon. I think that Muslim extremists are not so much concerned with their conception of god but are pissed off at being excluded from the wealth of the world.

A Recipe for Peace & Harmony

History teaches us that in times of poverty people look around for outlets to vent their displeasure upon. Racism is always at its worst when things aren’t going well for that community or population. The Nazis blamed the Jews and the communists. The battle between extreme right and extreme left continues on today. Catholics and Protestants fought in Northern Ireland for years and inequality was, often, the hidden catalyst for their bitter struggles. A beautiful life for all is the recipe for peace and harmony on this planet.

Do Animals Deserve a Beautiful Life Too?

What about the voiceless among us? Those without the ability to speak for themselves, what about them? Animals are slaughtered for food and sport all over the world. They do not have a voice that we can hear or process. Is it OK that they are continually made to suffer and sacrifice their lives for our enjoyment, sustenance and pleasure? Are animals the elephant in the room when it comes to the moral question of whether they deserve a beautiful life too? Animal Rights are the next big thing to emerge, in my view.

Conscious Human Beings on this Planet

Click here for more on an Australian business which is supplying cruelty free cosmetics to its customers. Things like this are the forerunners to big changes across the board. It begins with piecemeal examples of doing the right thing and then it spreads like wildfire. Think of Me Too and other powerful social movements, which have rocked the establishment and heralded change. Black Power was the van guard for the civil rights movement in America. A beautiful life for all should be the aspiration of all conscious human beings on this planet in the 21C.

Culinary Creativity: A Tasty Lifestyle

Cooking may have been considered a drab chore in years gone by, but, now, it is an expression of culinary creativity. A tasty lifestyle beckons all those who dabble in the kitchen with aplomb. Of course, you do need the right kind of kitchen to explore your deeper culinary adventures. If you are one of the many folk who enjoy watching the great chefs on TV, then, you will understand the requirements for the necessary infrastructure in the kitchen. A designer kitchen is, merely, one that has benefitted from a great deal of thought going into it, prior to constructing it.

A Designer Kitchen Makes Culinary Creativity Possible

A designer kitchen makes possible culinary creativity: a tasty lifestyle for the occupants and their families and friends. Firstly, and foremostly, it is all about having the space to prepare the kind of delicious meals and dishes that you may aspire to creating. Most bog ordinary kitchens are cramped and lack the necessary benchtop space to prepare anything more than a TV dinner. Kitchens in Australia pre-1990 were abysmal. They were the forgotten corner. They were the Black Hole of Calcutta. They were the reason why food in this nation was awful for the preceding couple of centuries.

The Perfect Kitchen for You

Peruse this portal for some pointers as to the right kind of kitchen and those who can put it all together for you. We have now in Sydney and right around the nation people who can design and craft the perfect kitchen for your home or business. We do not need to put up with mediocrity any more. We do not have to slave away in spaces unsuited to the expression of creativity. We can make exciting and very tasty things possible, when we have the right tools and the right infrastructure.

We Need the Kitchen to Cook it All In

Eating with and entertaining friends and family is one of the cornerstones of domestic bliss. We want to constantly put our best foot forward. We want to whip up delightful brunches, afternoon teas and dinner party menus, without the stress of combatting inadequate infrastructure in our lives. Why should the home cook suffer in his or her kitchen? Why is it necessary in 2018? Culinary creativity: a tasty lifestyle is the right of every Australian. We have fine produce available. We have inspiring cooking role models and teachers. We just need the kitchen to cook it all in.

How to Set Up an Office Intranet in Weeks, Not Years

How to Set Up an Office Intranet in Weeks, Not Years

Building an office intranet is an efficient way of sharing information within the team and with the clients. But before you set up an office intranet, you should ask first yourself the things that you would want your intranet to do and achieve. In addition, you should also consider what are the things that the office intranet should contain and how you want it to  be fulfilled. You can click here for examples of intranet systems that you can model in your office.

How to Set Up an Office Intranet in Weeks, Not Years

If you are fairly new in the world of office intranet, introducing an intranet system in your place of work will greatly improve team integration, collaboration, and internal communications. To put it briefly, an office intranet will add value to your company by generating an output in a well-planned and coherent manner.

For you to set up an office intranet in weeks, you should have a checklist. Ideally, the office intranet is password protected, has a place to upload and download documents, has menu options for each of your team, and can be hosted off-site. Just like the Internet, an intranet can be accessed via a server. You can either opt for a company network server or a cloud-based hosting service. Both choices have pros and cons, which you should weigh by including in the equation the needs of your business.

There are also pre-built software available that provides an intranet environment that is adequate for the day-to-day transactions and activities of your business. A few open source options can give you the adaptability and workability to broaden the base functionality of the software. Examples are Igloo, WordPress, and Drupal.

Achieving a Secure Office Intranet

The best way for you to make this happen is to turn over your mind with what it is that you are attempting to build. Identify your main goals and start working from there. Just make sure that the applications, software, and options that you will entertain will measure up to your primary objectives. You can always work on something customisable and hosted. That said, do not forget the important pieces here: functionality and security.

Surviving and then Thriving After an Acquired Disability

Surviving And Then Thriving After An Acquired DisabilityOur life has its ups and downs, highs and lows. Truth be told, there are occasions when these lows are very severe. One example is acquiring a disability. During these times, we will need all the support and guidance we can get. This way, we can see ourselves surviving and then thriving after an acquired disability.

You may lose a part of your body or its function depending on the disability or disabling disease you’ve come into. More often than not, you’ll no longer have the physical comfort and be unable to control yourself anymore. Worst, you will find yourself grieving and suffering from depression. Fortunately, there are ways on how you can survive and thrive after acquiring a disability.

Surviving and then Thriving After an Acquired Disability

A disability is described as having an ongoing condition that limits your day-to-day activities. But did you know that you can live healthy even with an acquired disability? Good models of this kind of lifestyle and mantra are Paralympians. Listed here are examples of this approach.

  • Be patient.

This is probably the most important thing to do to thrive after an acquired disability. If recovering from your current condition is still possible, it may take longer than expected as each one of us has our own recovery rates. So the key here is to be patient. Have faith in yourself that you will overcome this and that things will get better. It is a must that you stay patient with yourself and with the people around you when your daily tasks appear to be more difficult.

  • Exercise your mind and body.

Surviving and then thriving after an acquired disability isn’t all about the food you eat and the physical therapy. It also involves a healthy mindset. This is a good time for you to meditate, read, and let go of the things that worry you. Don’t think about the ‘here’, but instead where you are now.

  • Eat healthy and get enough sleep.

You can visit your nutritionist so that he/she can create a diet that is customised just for you and your condition. And do remember to steer clear from junk food! In addition, try to get enough sleep. Being deprived of this only increases your stress levels, which impacts your coping skills.

Living the Betting Lifestyle: Is It Worth the Gamble?

Everywhere you look these days, in all forms of media, you find the claxon call to ‘have a bet’. Gambling is the poster boy of the digital age, with blokey voices entreating fellow mugs to have a punt. The marketing behind corporate bookmakers and their myriad products is designed to appeal to some broad brushstroke idea about our national character. The ANZAC Day diggers having a beer and a bit of two up, the Aussie punter down the pub putting his hard earned on wall to wall racing screens covering the island nation, these are all rolled into the ads promoting this popular pastime.

Living the Betting Lifestyle: Is It Worth the Gamble?

The message is that this is harmless fun, despite the bland warnings that immediately follow each ad. These warn of the dangers of too much of a good thing, that good thing is losing money. Human beings are, obviously, not the sharpest tools in the shed. Because if you took a moment or two, to add up the score, you would realise that all this flood of marketing money must come from somewhere. If everybody was winning, these companies would not be able to afford to cover primetime sporting events with their advertising.

Even though, we act like sheep, we don’t calculate the odds according to the group figures. No, we only think about ourselves, our own little slice of life, and what it would be like if we won our little wager. The bookies, these multinational gambling corporations, they just want a little bit of money from each of us, because a little bit multiplied by millions becomes plenty of moola. Click here for some great deals and odds. They don’t want the problems that come with the cash of the problem gambler. It is the punter, the compulsive gambler, who chases his or her losses, that causes all the societal problems.

Living the betting lifestyle: is it worth it the gamble? The law of nature is – ‘easy come, easy go’. A profitable result on a punt, can encourage dreamers to think that they can beat the system. They quickly envision themselves putting up their feet and swanning about in style courtesy of the punt. Laying down tools for good and living a life based on lucky numbers and their own superior intelligence. It is a mirage my friend, you are actually in a desert and soon to be low on drinking water. Friends and family will desert you quick smart and, next, when you look around, there will only be losers in the place.

Living Yoga On And Off The Mat

Yoga poses an interesting conundrum for many on the path to a variety of aspirations. This is because the majority of people discover yoga through the physical application of the asanas. They begin yoga as a form of physical exercise, and it is that, but it is also so much more. It is a way of living and a pathway to self-realisation.  It is an ancient source of great wisdom and a portal to enlightenment. Living yoga on and off the mat, is an expression, which challenges some. Especially those that may have separated parts of their lives, with yoga limited to that time on the mat and the remainder of their lives not reflecting the essence of a spiritual pathway.

Living Yoga On And Off The Mat

Can you keep yoga in a can on a shelf labelled ‘physical exercise’? Perhaps, for a little while, but yoga breathes life into every corner of your existence. It is not possible to go deeply into yoga and remain uncommitted to the tenets of this spiritual pursuit. Of course, there is, also, those on the path who become lost in their spiritual ego, these are the people who boast about their devotion to their strict interpretation of an Indian yogic lifestyle. These folks spend much of their time criticising other students of yoga and bagging them as western fakes.

Yoga is uniquely yours and it is isn’t. The way yoga moves within you is distinctive to you, but each yogic tradition is, also, richly reflective of the culture it emerged from. Yoga is the ghost inside the machine; it is, now, a popular spiritual practice flowering during the most material age humanity has ever experienced. It is akin to our souls stretching out to be free from bodies encumbered with layers of material things holding us all down.

Living yoga on and off the mat challenges us all to find conceptions of ourselves beyond who we think that we are and what we consider that we possess and own. The reality is that all possessions and ideas of ownership and control are illusions. The worry that so many people feel about their material lives is a cosmic joke really. The breath inside our bodies and the witness state is all that exists in the moment. Yoga is a science, a way of realising truth in a world made up of maya. Click here to find out more.

Aesthetic Surgery Increasingly Common Among Young People

Generations’ X, Y and Zee have been born with more than silver spoons in their gobs, they have been the focus of decades of sustained wealth. Wealth without wars in the western nations; and this has bred attitudes of ‘give it to me, all of it, now!’ Mummy and daddy have obliged; indeed, it is their reason for living as they age and lose their own egocentric appetites. Creating perfect lifestyles for their children becomes their raison d’etre. The media we watch on screens are cultural mirrors reflecting the aspirations of our race.

Aesthetic Surgery Increasingly Common Among Young People

Perfect white teeth radiating perfect wide smiles are the norm on TV and on the movie screens. Cosmetic surgery is nothing to be sneered at anymore, even, for kids. Designer faces are being carved out in surgeries behind closed doors, but their results are on display in our schools and shopping malls. The age-old cry, “is my nose too big for my face?” Is now, being taken far more seriously, by cashed up and propertied parents in the west. The usual fears of adolescence are finding responsive audiences at home and plastic surgeons are complying with the wishes of wealthy parents and their plaintive offspring.

It seems that we all want to look and live like movie stars and celebrities. It is no longer something that we outgrow when we move on from the teenage years. The superficies has become a badge of affluence to burnish and polish like precious metals. Click here for some examples. Our cosmetic appearance is becoming more and more important for longer and longer. Old age is now like leprosy was in ancient times, something to be hidden away in leper colonies. Wrinkles are akin to buboes from the plague; and are a sure sign of material poverty.

Stretched skin masks faces in permanent fake smiles and those pearly white teeth, just keep grinning on septuagenarians everywhere. Aesthetic surgery increasingly common among young people in the twenty first century and it continues into middle age and beyond. Women, in particular must live up to celebrity driven standards, in terms of their everyday appearance. Boob jobs and labial nips and tucks, nose jobs and lip enlargements, and those perfect white teeth, are all on the menu of every woman young and old. Youth is the only currency in our culture and cosmetic surgery is the handmaiden for some tactical cutting.

Why Have Some Countries Adopted an Environmentally Friendly Conscience, But Not Others?

‘One person’s trash is another person’s treasure’, and this relational concept remains true for communities and countries. This goes someway to explaining why some nations have adopted environmentally proactive policies and others have not. Countries emerging from the bottom rung and who are becoming more developed, often, spurn their waste, like the chamber pot in the age of the flushing toilet and modern plumbing. New wealth lends itself to flash cars and other examples of conspicuous consumption. These folks do not want to waste time thinking about their rubbish.

Why Have Some Countries Adopted an Environmentally Friendly Conscience, But Not Others?

There is, of course, a lot of money to be made in taking care of other people’s trash. Indeed, waste management is fast becoming a lucrative industry in the developed western nations. The outward indication for visitors that they are in a wealthy part of town is the absence of rubbish from the streets. Paying people to pick up the trash and take it to depots and facilities on the other side of town is all part of the gentrification of suburbs. Click here for examples of this service. This is happening on a larger scale too.

Sweden has been importing waste from neighbouring nations, because it has run out of its own. It incinerates the waste from dozens of European countries and heats its communities utilising the energy generated. Less than 1% of Swedish internal waste has gone to landfill every year, since 2011. Plus, about half of its electricity is sourced from renewable energy sources. The Swedes were one of the first nations to recognise that there is money in waste management and they grabbed the industry by its recyclables and squeezed hard. In comparison the United Kingdom, has been dragging the chain.

In the UK, they are struggling to reach a 50% recycling of all rubbish figure by 2020 and have come to the waste management game late in the day. The European Union has been driving much of the action in recycling throughout Europe and now that the UK are leaving the EU, it will be interesting to see if they continue to aim for improvement. There are worse stories, as in places like Malta, which has an antiquated waste management system or lack of any real system, full stop. Dogs in the streets feed on bagged rubbish left idle and uncollected on pavements. Waste management and recycling are vital, if we are to continue on this planet with ever more people populating our communities.


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